Monday, December 24, 2018

Cozy in Koolaburra on Christmas Eve

It's Christmas Eve! Can ya'll believe that!? Where did the time go... I feel like I keep saying that, but goodness this year just flew by. We are headed to my sisters house near Clemson today to spend the holidays with my family, and I'm really looking forward to some quality time with the people I love! We are all so spread out across the country it's a rare occasion for the whole family to be together in one place, and my favorite little fur baby gets to join in on the festivities this year!  If you're a regular around here, then you already know I live for the cozy vibes so it's no surprise I dressed for the occasion today. I'm super excited about my new Koolaburra Sulana Short boots! Shane likes to keep our house and the car an icebox, so my feet are usually cold but these Koolaburra boots are lined with sheepskin so they keep everything warm and toasty! They're also under $100 and Ugg's sister company, so if you're looking for a more affordable option - these are great. Super comfortable, and I love the exposed collar and buckle details. 

Check out Koolaburra's latest collection here


*Thank you to Koolaburra for sponsoring todays post. As always, all opinions are my own.

Tuesday, December 18, 2018

A DIY Hair Mask Worth Trying

Finding the right hair regimen can be a challenge. As you may already know, I've been going through what I call "hair-rehab" for the last year in the name of restoring the health and natural shine to my hair after extensive heat, color, and styling damage. With that said, I've tried out numerous products from new styling tools, to masks, and treatments, and while some work others don't. So, today I want to talk about Pantene's first at-home rescue treatment, Pantene Pro-V Intense Rescue Shots which will be hitting shelves in the US in January 2019. 

When Pantene reached out to to try the new Intense Rescue Shots, and being that I'm currently hair obsessed, I jumped at the opportunity to potentially find a new product that works. So, you're probably wondering what this product claims to do, correct? Ideal for color-treated and heat-styled hair of all types, the Intense Rescue Shots claim to noticeably repair damaged hair in just one use. I pay over $30 every other week for treatments at a salon to help restore moisture, shine, and the overall health of my hair - therefore, when I heard I could potentially get these same results at home and for a lot less money, it only made sense to try it out. 

So how does it work? "The single-dose tube contains a deeply absorbing blend of Pro-Vitamin B5, strengthening lipids and natural glycerin that targets the damaged areas to give hair the flexibility and resilience it needs to endure styling and environmental stresses." The lipids in the shot are meant to be absorbed into the hair, rather than coating it like other masks. You can use it once a week in place of your regular conditioner, coating the hair from roots to tips and targeting trouble areas specifically. For me, this is the crown area of my hair as I see the most breakage from styling and hair-ties in that area. You leave the Intense Rescue Shots in for 30 seconds, and then rinse for 30 seconds and that's all there is to it. Be sure to not over-rinse!

So, what are my overall thoughts on the Pantene Pro-V Intense Rescue Shots? Well, my hair feels noticeably softer and lighter weight post use. It also has a nice shine to it and definitely feels less dry and brittle. I'm interested in trying this out religiously once a week over an extended period of time to see how it helps the overall health of my hair! 

Pantene Pro-V Rescue Shots are available for purchase at Learn more here!


This is a sponsored conversation written by me on behalf of Pantene. The opinions and text are all mine.

Friday, November 23, 2018

Sequined Holiday Jacket + Best of Black Friday/Cyber Monday Sales

Happy Thanksgiving, girlfriends! I hope everyone is enjoying time off with family and friends today, and hopefully has a full tummy with all the turkey and yummy things! We are in Breckenridge, Colorado again this year. This is a tradition my family has had for a number of years, however, we skipped last year due to the wedding being so close and everyone needing to travel to the East coast for it. It feels good to be back! I long for family time more and more these days, and these trips are always too short. But more on that later! 

Today we are talking shopping, because let's be honest - after we eat, we shop! Am I right, or am I right?! Below you will find a list of my favorite retailers, and the ones I feel are worth shopping, along with my selection of items from each sale. Also, keep a lookout for a blog post in the next couple days on items I have recently worn that are now on sale! I will be posting those outfits in the app throughout the weekend if you want to get a jumpstart, but hope to have the full post up here by Monday! You can click each link below, and it will redirect you to the sale site for each retailer.


BeautyCounter // 15% off sitewide + FREE SHIPPING on orders over $50
Check out my skincare favorites here. Top 3 items to take advantage of:
Travel sized Resurfacing Peel
Glow Mini Oils
New Nudes Lipgloss Trio

Nordstrom Rack // Spend $150, get $25 back + extra 30% off Cyber Monday deals

H&M // 30% off everything + FREE SHIPPING

Crate & Barrel // 20% off + FREE SHIPPING 

The Pink Lily Boutique // 30% off sitewide + FREE SHIPPING with code PLBCYBER30 (doorbusters included)

Carbon38 // 30% off with code INDULGE30

Nordstrom // Up to 60% off + Spend $250 and get $50

Alo Yoga // Cyber Steals at $30, $40, $50, and $60 + 30% off full price 

Abercrombie // 50% off everything + FREE SHIPPING

Express // 50% off everything + FREE SHIPPING

Wednesday, November 14, 2018

Where To Stay in Vermont: Woodstock Inn & Resort

Oh Woodstock, how I love ya!! This was my favorite hotel on our New England tour last month and the second stop of our three road trip locations. While I loved all of the places we stayed at, The Woodstock Inn & Resort stood out to me the most due to its cozy bed & breakfast feel combined with the luxury and elegance of a resort. 

The Town of Woodstock, VT

Woodstock, Vermont is a tiny little place in the southern part of the state. This town embodies quintessential New England villages with it's historic buildings, covered bridges, Billings Farm & Museum, Main Street shops, Quechee Gorge and so much more. The Inn & Resort is centrally located in the heart of town, perfect for strolling it's charming streets and grabbing a bite to eat. 

The Inn

Imagine all the cozy vibes you can think of, and it would accurately describe The Woodstock Inn & Resort! The resort recently went through a series of enhancements including a new lobby and library,  complete with an open fire fireplace! It almost feels like you're walking into the living room of your own home, which I really appreciate while traveling as I crave the comforts of home while away. Check-in was a breeze, and the concierge was extremely helpful in recommending places to eat, things to do, and popular local attractions to see. In addition, the Inn & Resort is pet friendly! A set of rooms on the lower level is reserved for pet owners to provide easy access to the dog walking area. If you're like me, and enjoy fitness and recreational activities on vacation, then I would highly recommend checking out the Inn's athletic club! I ventured over there one morning for a little cardio and it is hands down the nicest athletic club I've ever seen in association with a hotel. It includes everything from full size tennis courts, to racquetball, indoor swimming pools, a full sized gym, and even fitness classes. I actually wish we had discovered this a little earlier as I would have loved to try out a fitness class during our stay! This review also would not be complete without mentioning the level of service The Inn & Resort provides. The staff was extremely friendly, very willing to help, and truly made us feel special. You can tell they take great pride in customer service! 

Dining At The Inn

Ya'll, the food was so good! I'm a big foodie, so this category is always a big deal to me because food makes or breaks a trip in my opinion. There are four restaurants to choose from on site, with the Red Rooster being a AAA Four Diamond Award winner. All of the restaurants on site place a big emphasis on local ingredients, and our waiter also took the time to explain where certain items we were eating came from, which I found to be a nice touch! We opted for the breakfast buffet in the mornings which had every breakfast item you could ever imagine available, including made to order omelettes. Take me back!! 

The Spa

This deserves it's own category for so many reasons! Holy cow, it was hands down one of the most beautiful spa's I've ever seen. Talk about natural light!! Do ya'll see those windows!? Its not small either, standing at 10,000 square feet it's one of New England's newest spa's and LEED - certified. I've also never encountered a more inviting hot tub! I opted for a 50-minute Swedish massage here, and it was nothing short of amazing. The treatment room was just as beautiful as the pictures above, the massage therapist was experienced and super pleasant, and my only regret was not getting a longer treatment. I would love to come back here and spend an entire day detoxing and relaxing together with the hubby - it's the perfect place for a "relax and unwind" getaway.  

Looking back at these photos makes me want to book another trip immediately! There's so much to do and see, that our two nights just wasn't long enough. If you have the opportunity to visit, I highly recommend taking advantage of Vermont's prettiest address and booking a stay here


Wednesday, November 7, 2018

28 Things I've Learned In 28 Years

Ahhh, tomorrow is my 28th birthday!! It's hard to believe a whole year has gone by since this day last year, and I think it's safe to say 27 was my biggest year yet. I get teary eyed thinking about all that life offered me (and my husband) in the last year because together, we experienced more ups and downs than ever before. Tons of firsts, big life moves, and lots of lessons learned! Last year I wrote a post on 27 things you may not know about me, but this year I wanted to switch it up and talk about 28 things I've learned in 28 years, and a little about each lesson. So cue the confetti and let's get to it! 

1. Follow Your Dreams // This has probably been the biggest (and most emotional) lesson learned for me, and most of it has come from year 27. I always dreamed of owning my own business, working for myself, and living the American Dream - and year 27 made that a reality. It was hands down the best move I've ever made for myself. Mentally and emotionally, it needed to happen. I loved my corporate job for a long time, but it never "satisfied" my entrepreneur mindset. I always knew there was something more out there for me, but it wasn't until my blog came to fruition that I realized this is what I was made for. I know people thought I was crazy, hell - my own husband thought I was crazy. I was 27 years old, making six figures since 24 years old, my car was paid for, cell phone was paid for, gas was paid for, and I got to travel with the company to really fun places. So why would I ever want to leave and give all that up? I felt miserable. My passion wasn't making someone else wealthy, the money didn't make my dreams of a bigger picture go away, and it was eating up all of the time I would have had working on what I owned. I woke up every day knowing I could earn all that back, and then some if I just put in the same amount of time (if not more), into my own business. This was such an emotional struggle for me because my husband also works at that same company, and for a very long time did not agree with my thought process on this. I couldn't comfortably leave my job, without knowing he was okay with it. We are a team, and my decisions are also his decisions. So I fought through it until we could both be on the same page. Since that day, I have worked harder on this than any job I've ever had, but I wouldn't trade it in for the world. I feel free, it's rewarding, I wake up excited for the day every day, and just like my instincts told me - we are just fine, because when you love something you'll find a way to make it work and if you're not willing to take a risk, you'll have to settle for the ordinary. My only regret is that I didn't do it sooner.

 2. Family Is Everything // This isn't a new lesson, but one I was reminded of more times than not. Earlier this year, Shane's dad had a major heart attack with 100% blockage in the right coronary artery. Thankfully he is okay, but both of us realized we don't spend enough time with family. I come from an extremely small family, while Shane comes from an extremely large family. Both of our families live on opposite sides of the country so we only get together a few times a year. As I get older, I long for more quality time with them and wish they were closer. 

3. Quality Time Together Is My Love Language // I think it took me a while to figure this one out but year 27 highlighted this for me. Both Shane and I have spent the entire year traveling more than we've ever traveled in the 5.5 years we've been together. The majority of our travels have not been together, so as they say - absence makes the heart grow fonder. I'd take quality time together over anything these days!

 4. Stay In Your Own Lane // I think you can learn from watching others who have been successful, and the one thing they all have in common is that they stay in their own lane. Don't be afraid to be uniquely you, what you like might not be what others like - and that's okay. That's what makes you, you - and your brand, your brand. 

5. Learn When To Say No // I spent a lot of this year saying yes to everything. Yes to every event, yes to every trip, yes to every social gathering etc. and to be honest, I am exhausted. I spread myself too thin this year, and need to be more strategic in the future. 

6. Hire Help // I like to be in control of my brand, communications, and well - basically everything in life, ha! However, I couldn't do it all alone this year. I hired Kristina to help me part time with The Cheeky Been, and it was the best decision I ever made. Not only is she a good friend to me, I've been able to get so much more done with her on my team. 

 7. Hire Someone Who Doesn't Want To Learn From You // Piggybacking off of hiring help, Amee Song gave this piece of advice at the RewardStyle conference this year and I thought it made so much sense. If you're hiring someone who wants to learn from you, you will spend most of your time teaching them and most likely will lose the knowledge base at some point. Instead, hire someone who makes you a better person!

8. I'm Most Creative In The Mornings // I've never been a morning person, however, I've learned in this last year that I'm most creative and most productive first thing in the mornings. I've forced myself to be a morning person over the years, and it's proved to be worth it! 

9. You Can Only Count Your Best Friends On One Hand // This is a lesson from my dad, and not a new one. He's been saying this my whole life, but it could not be more true! I was worried when I left my corporate job that my friends from work would become more distant since I wouldn't be seeing them every day anymore - but in all reality, they have remained my best friends - and for that I am so grateful. I love them to death!

10. Blogging Is A Full Time Job // And by full time, I mean it's 7 days a week, 24 hours a day and it never stops. I work way more than a 40 hour work week, and it's extremely difficult to turn it off. I would love to teach myself to take time off and truly enjoy certain trips without worrying about content. Vacation was way more fun prior to blogging!

11. You Can't Put A Price Tag On Travel // I've spent my entire life traveling around the world! My dad is in the cruise line industry and for as long as I can remember we have been joining him on the ships. The Cheeky Been has also allowed me to see so many places in the US that I've never had an opportunity to visit, and I think travel opens up your eyes to different cultures/ways of life that no history or geography book or class can teach you. 

12. Take Care Of Your Skin // While this may seem like a weird "lesson" to have learned, I wish I would've put more emphasis on this sooner. As I am approaching my thirties, I am noticing way more fine lines, wrinkles and impurities in my skin than ever before - and have thus made my skin a priority. Spend the time and money on a good skin care regimen as early as possible! It will be worth it later.

13. Our Wedding Day Was The Best Day Of My Life // 27 brought marriage and while this lesson might be cliche, I wish I could relive our wedding day over and over again because it truly was the best day of my 28 years on this earth. 

14. Don't Put All Your Eggs In One Basket // I read an article recently that said Millennials on average have six streams of income. If/when something happens to your main stream of income, you have others to fall back on. I personally have four. 

15.  Worry About What You Can Control, Not What You Can't Control // As the years go on, I spend more and more time worrying about things that happen that are out of my control. Age bears responsibility, so when these instances affect my life I tend to stress over them. Shane is really good at reminding me that it's not worth stressing over, and to refocus my time on what I can actually control. 

16. I Get The Most Joy Out Of Giving // Birthdays and holidays have always been a favorite of mine. I get super excited about purchasing the perfect gift for the ones I love, and it warms my heart to make others happy. Sometimes I get so excited, I can hardly stand it! 

17. I Workout For Me // I'm thankful my mom instilled good habits in my sister and I from an early age. We have always been active, and focused on healthy eating habits but I've learned over time that I truly feel the best inside and out, when I workout regularly and eat clean. Working out for me is far more than physical appearance. It's a stress reliever, it allows me to clear my mind, it releases happy endorphins and it truly helps me feel good overall. I actually enjoy working out and eating healthy!

18.  Invest In Yourself // Most of you know, I workout with a trainer in Charlotte. Yes, it's not cheap. Believe me, I cringe every time my monthly payment is due - ha! BUT, the benefits far outweigh the cost. You only get one body, so take care of it. We all focus so much time on material items, and have no problem swiping that card for a new bag, shoes, car etc. but we all tend to forget that we need to be around and alive to enjoy those items, so your most important investment should be your body. More on that here

19. Rid Yourself Of Negativity // Thankfully I don't have a lot of negativity in my life, but what negativity I did have looming around I got rid of a long time ago, and it was the most liberating feeling of all time. Life's too short to surround yourself with the negatives. 

20. Be Grateful // Be grateful for what you do have, not what you don't have. It's so easy to get caught up in what everyone else is doing or buying on social media, that you forget to be grateful for the gift of life. I'm guilty of this and constantly need to remind myself that the life I live is a blessing in itself. 

21. Being Kind Is More Important Than Being Right // This is one I've experienced a few times from afar, and in my own life (especially in marriage). It's easy to let your ego get in the way of relationships in the name of being right or proving a point. Sometimes I have to step back and remind myself that the relationship is more important to me, than being right. 

22. Success Is In The Eyes Of The Beholder // Everyone's version of being "successful" looks different. As long as you are happy, you are successful in my opinion.  

23. Slow Down // Being in your late twenties comes with the pressure of planning everything out, getting it all done before kids, figuring out your purpose on earth, making it to the top as fast as possible etc. This year has taught me that I need to slow down. Let life unfold on it's own, take time to weigh out opportunities, and just enjoy the ride before it passes me by no matter what happens. 

24. It's Okay To Make Mistakes // Even though I have a platform that provides advice or inspiration, I am still human and I still make mistakes. It's okay to not know everything, it's okay to embrace my limitations and learn from them, because that's life. We learn from it, and move on. Sometimes I think there is a stigma attached to bloggers that we should be perfect humans because we are putting content out on the Internet, but in all reality how relatable are we really if we don't make mistakes sometimes? I am learning to embrace those moments, instead of feeling ashamed of them. 

25. There Are Two Types Of Friends // Friends you do business with, and friends that stick with you throughout life. 

26. Small Habits Lead To Big Rewards // It takes 21 days to build a habit. If you repeat them daily, they become part of your routine and not so much a chore. In the long term, you reap big rewards from the small daily habits you created. For me, some of the small habits I have reaped big rewards from are lowering my sugar in take (especially in coffee), walking at least 10K steps per day (I wear a tracker), and incorporating at least 30 minutes of cardio/activity into my routine six days a week. In year 28, I need to add in "making the bed daily" - haha. 

27. You Are Who You Hangout With // Surround yourself with people who long for the same goals and aspirations as you. This is a lesson Ro talks to me about a lot - and he has been practicing and preaching it for years. I talked earlier about having a small circle, but all of those people in my circle embody the same positive energy, goals, dreams, and attitude as me. When you surround yourself with positive people, you will inherit their energy and traits to only propel your further. 

28. Coffee Is Life // Last but not least, keeping it light hearted because this girl cannot function without coffee! I must have a coffee first thing in the morning every day, and if I'm at home it will always be a Nespresso! Anyone who knows me, knows it isn't a pretty sight if I have to wake up without coffee!

Phew, that was a long list! If you've read them all, you go girl. We are headed to the mountains this weekend with a group of my closest friends to celebrate my birthday and I honestly cannot wait! It's been a while since our little group has done vacation together, and I actually think it's the first time we are all traveling together with our husbands and staying in the same house - should be interesting! 



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